Tonette Kelly

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You Get What You Expect So Why Expect Less Than The Best?


Expect The Best


Esther and Jerry Hicks have another important message for us:

The premise that so many people come from is that good isn’t natural; good must be demanded or manipulated or orchestrated. And we say, good IS natural! It must be asked for, and it must be expected — but Good is the only Stream that flows.

— Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Tarrytown, NY on Saturday, May 15th, 1999 # 84


It is essential that you remember that you control your own destiny with your thoughts. If you focus on ‘not having’ then that is exactly what you will receive. If you focus on ‘having something less than the best’ then that is exactly what you will receive. The universal Law of Attraction means that it cannot be otherwise.

You attract the outcome that resonates with the vibrations that you are putting out into the universe.

This is why it is so important to make sure that children from disadvantaged backgrounds get to see ‘other lives’. If they don’t see something different to what they’ve already got they focus on what they have as being normal and attract more of the same. They get what they expect.

Once the mindset changes (ie. the mind movies change) a different vibration is released and life changes. Opportunities arise and once seized there is no looking back! There are no limits other than those in your own head.

Tonette Kelly


May 26, 2011 Posted by | Uncategorized | Leave a comment

How To Find Your Life Partner

Law of Attraction Experts Esther and Jerry Hicks have wonderful advice for everyone who feels that it is hard to find the perfect relationship.

They believe that:


People are not finding it difficult to find the mate of their dreams because that person is not out there, but because of their own contradiction to their own desire in the thoughts they offer about the subject every day.

When you consistently offer thoughts about your future relationship that feel good while you think them, that means you are consistently matching the desires that you have discovered as you have lived life. And under those conditions, only someone in agreement with your desires could come to you. Under those conditions, no need for control is necessary.
Through each exposure to interacting with others, you launch continuous rockets of desires of what you prefer. And only when you are a Vibrational Match to the culmination of those desires will you allow your rendezvous with someone who matches those intentions that you have gathered along your physical trail.

— Abraham

Excerpted from the book, The Vortex, Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships # 80

What this means is that you must work out what it is you seek in a partner and constantly focus on how good it will feel to be with a person like this.

You will then send out vibrations that will attract a person like this into your life.

If you constantly focus on the lack of a suitable partner or on the problems you have had with past partners you will draw to you what you are thinking about.

Remember you get what you think about!   

Tonette Kelly

May 23, 2011 Posted by | Uncategorized | Leave a comment

Worry Brings More Worry

Today’s Quote from Esther and Jerry Hicks made me stop and think.


Don't Worry

Worrying is using your imagination to create something you don’t want.

— Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Asheville, NC on Saturday, September 5th, 1998 # 69


What this means is that if we worry we are focusing our attention on lack and what we give our attention to becomes our reality.


It is really important to take a minute to stop and think what worry really achieves. If we are worying about the past this is pointless as the past is gone and we cannot change it. The only thing to do is accept the past and learn from it.

If we are worrying about the future again this is pointless because we have no certainty that this future will arrive. Much could happen to change the feared circumstance.

It is far better to focus on the now, this minute and accept that what has happened occurred for a reason and all that will happen dpends on how we deal with now and focus our thoughts.

We shape our future with our thoughts and action, not be focusing on what we don’t want. The universe cannot distinguish between what is wanted and what is not and simply delives that which is asked for by way of the attention of your thoughts.

Accept what you cannot change and change what you cannot accept. The power is within you.


Tonette Kelly






May 10, 2011 Posted by | Uncategorized | Leave a comment




Here is another great piece of advice from Jerry and Esther Hicks in relation to how you can be a co-creator of your own life.





We practice the Art of Allowing. Which means reaching for the thought that feels best, not the thought that is the real thought, not the thought that is telling it like it is. Telling it like it is only holds you where it is: “Damn it, I’m going to tell it like it is. I’m going to tell it like it is, because everybody wants me to tell it like it is.” Tell it like it is if you like it like it is. But if you don’t like it like it is, then don’t tell it like it is—tell it like you want it to be. If you tell it like you want it to be long enough, you will begin to feel it like you want it to be. And when you feel it like you want it to be, it be’s like you want it to be.

— Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Syracuse, NY on Saturday, September 30th, 2000 # 63


What Does This Mean?

This advice reinforces the fact that we must use our thoughts to create our life. You have to work out what it is you are seeking, focus on this, take action towards achieving it and then ALLOW the universe to deliver it to you WITHOUT paying much attention to how the delivery will take place. 

If you don’t like your current situation or circumstance accept it and then remove your focus from it and focus on the circumstance that you would like. As much as possible act as though your circumstance has changed and you have already got what you want. This will ensure that you feel good and put out positive vibrations so that what you want is delivered.

You won’t block the delivery by focusing on something you don’t want and having that delivered instead.

Also, when you stop and think about it you want a particular circumstance or thing because you want the feelings that it gives you. If you already have those feelings because you imagine that you already have the circumstance or thing you have already got what you wanted. The physical manifestation is simply a technicality.

Tonette Kelly

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May 6, 2011 Posted by | Uncategorized | Leave a comment


Here is another great quote from Esther and Jerry Hicks (Abraham)

Take Action


Make a decision and then make it right. There just are no wrong decisions. You could go this way, or that way, and either way will eventually get you to where you want to be. But in the moment you start complimenting yourself on the decision you’ve made, in that moment, you come back into vibrational alignment with who-you-really-are.

— Abraham

What Abraham is saying is take action. Make a decision and do something. The main reason why people are not successful is that they stand still. They want everything to be perfect before they start and perfection  can never be.

You need to start and then fix any problems and issues as you go. Take the risk.

You will feel so good about taking action that your vibration will be positive and you will start to attract more good.

The Law of Attraction is soooooooooooo powerful. Focus, take action and expect positive results. Remember – what you see is what you’ll be.

Tonette Kelly

May 2, 2011 Posted by | Life | Leave a comment